Intp male dating
The point of this post is simply to point out the various pros and cons of engaging with other types.
What ISFJs Want in Relationships ISFJs get an immense amount of pleasure from serving and taking care of their loved ones.
Call me strange, but I think online dating should be data driven in the first phases - find the people who are a high match first, then look at photos to break ties.
In that vein I’ve been documenting the choices on okcupid and have made some startling observations.1.
I’m a pretty average guy, but if I go less than 80% I get the racists, homophobes, and religious right.
For instance under 80% most think women are obligated to shave, that the man should rule the house, certain sex acts are wrong, don’t appreciate intelligence, etc.3.
As I’ve explained elsewhere, the promise of psychological wholeness is a likely reason why “opposites attract.” The real problem for INTPs is finding a partner who can hold their interest for the long haul.You crave a strong, deep relationship and rely on your trusty logic and intellect to know that you are keeping your partner satisfied both physically and emotionally.You are not the one who will fall hard and fast in a passionate love affair.They can get so caught up in taking care of everyone else, that their own desires and needs go untended.In a relationship, they hope to find somebody who will give them a chance to slow down, relax, and be taken care of for a change.